Happy Thanksgiving everyone. I had a few quick thoughts to share with you all on gratitude and giving thanks. As we all recover (in one way or another) from celebrating Thanksgiving, why not spend a moment thinking about gratitude and giving thanks?
This is, in a way, a reappropriation of the holiday. As we have become more “woke” we have spent some good effort confronting the darknesses within the American past – those moments in history when we as a country were less than humane, open, accepting, compassionate, etc (yes, this is a deeply sugarcoated way of describing the atrocities in our past). These are dark and shameful elements of our past, and they are uncomfortable stepping stones to where we are now and what we have achieved (for better or worse). Becoming more aware of these things, changing cultural concepts into Indigenous People’s Day and National Day of Mourning are valuable steps toward enlightenment. In Germany, current school children are taught about the Holocaust with humility and understanding. They recognize the value of facing the mistakes of the past to prevent the inflation of the future. We have begun to turn this stone as well.
But this post isn’t about the historical dark side of the Thanksgiving holiday. I want to look at things a little more literally. I believe this is what most people do if they have the opportunity to sit around a dinner table with loved ones. It’s about giving thanks.
Why is gratitude a psychologically relevant topic? Well, to put it simply, it is about acknowledging truths. So frequently, we deny negative (read: unpleasant) truths. It’s what most defense mechanisms hide from view. It’s obvious to most of us that most people want to avoid unpleasant, scary, or painful truths. But, coincidentally, we do this with some positive truths as well. It is very easy for us to become encased in stress, negativity, cynicism, and suspicion. We have increasingly bought into a notion that we need to be cautious and suspicious of each other. We are inundated with negative news (notice, whether it’s true or “fake” it’s almost always negative), combativeness of one kind or another, and gobs of anger. All recent social measures say that we are carrying around more medium-grade, chronic stress than ever before (except maybe the Great Depression, but that hasn’t been measured) and it’s wreaking havoc . Medically we know that chronic stress is profoundly unhealthy for us, with some theorizing that it could be an origin of most chronic illnesses. The same could be said for the increasing reports of anxiety across the population.
In the middle of all this negativity, it can be hard to recall that there are some good things in our life. And here is what I think is the most important point of all of this: feeling gratitude for what you have does not negate the worry, the pain, the concerns, or the wounds of your life. Having gratitude doesn’t mean you can’t be upset, sad, scared, or pissed about something else in your life. Gratitude and pain are not mutually exclusive, and gratitude isn’t a way of saying “don’t worry, be happy” (credit to Bobby McFerrin if he has a copyright on that phrase). It’s about acknowledging that, even though you might be in pain, some things have gone your way, in one way or another.
How do I do this, Dr. Santana? Well, there are lots of sources that discuss the psychological benefits of gratitude and give lots of differing advice on how to do it. And honestly, it doesn’t matter how you create what has been dubbed a “gratitude practice.” Just that you do it. So take the time. Start a gratitude journal. Go around your dinner table and talk about what you’re thankful for – every night! Not just in the end of November. Give yourself 5 minutes every morning, or every night before bed, to think about 1 thing you’re grateful for. It doesn’t matter how you do it. Just do it (credit to Nike, incase they have a copyright on that phrase).
And so with that, I will say thank you and Happy Giving Thanks.
Just over a month ago I attended the 2019 Conference “Do No Harm?: How The Ethics of Psychology and Psychiatry Have Become Unethical” put on by the International Society for Ethical Psychology and Psychiatry (ISEPP). Baltimore, MD was a great host city (we host the conference in a different city every year) and it was so rewarding reconnecting with old friends and meeting new professionals, survivors, and activists. Full disclosure, I am on the Board of Directors of ISEPP and was on the Conference Planning Committee. I am really proud of the program we put together this year and couldn’t help but be really impressed with our presenters. Here is my recap of the weekend…
Friday night, at our kickoff reception, we heard from Dr. Gail Tasch, pediatric psychiatrist and new member of the ISEPP Board of Directors. In her talk “A Metamorphosis” she recounted her process of discovering how harmful psychiatry, particularly inpatient psychiatry, has been to the children she has worked with. After witnessing the profound physiological and emotional harm caused by psychotropic medications she began a new career goal of helping children come off of these medications while she struggled against a medical system and philosophy that ignores iatrogenic injury.
We started Saturday morning off by hearing from the amazing Dr. Paula Caplan on “Psychiatric Diagnosis is THE Fundamental Problem Plaguing the Mental Health System.” Dr. Caplan was on the DSM IV Task Force and resigned after 2 years because she witness the arbitrary and unscientific nature of formation of “mental illness” diagnoses. She outlined common myths about DSM diagnostic categories and reported on some of the unethical dealings that happen behind the scenes between authors of the DSMs and pharmaceutical companies.
Our second presenter on Saturday was attorney Stephen Sheller who recently wrote “Big Pharma, Big Greed”. Mr. Sheller was on the legal committee that recently won $8 billion dollars from Johnson & Johnson for their illegal suppression of data regarding harmful effects (specifically gynecomastia) of their drug Risperdal. He recounted how he started getting calls from whistleblowers which began his work confronting pharmaceutical companies for “offlable” marketing and for pushing doctors to lower their criteria for prescription. These practices lead directly to countless cases of iatrogenic harm.
Saturday afternoon was kicked off by Patrick Hahn, PhD, author of “Madness and Genetic Deterimism: Is mental illness in our genes?” He discussed the origin of psychiatric genetics research in 1917 Germany and how it became one of the founding rationalizations for mass sterilization and murder. He also dismantled the fundamental research studies that claim that psychological distress is genetic, including foundational twin and family studies, by highlighting poor scientific method and replication failure. Throughout he called professionals to pay more attention to environmental factors than biological ones.
Then we heard from Dr. Irving Kirsch. He is the author of The Emperor’s New Drugs: Exploding the Antidepressant Myth. Dr. Kirsch is the Associate Director of the Program in Placebo Studies and a lecturer at Harvard Medical School (and has a litany of other credentials). He presented on his meta-analyses of antidepressant studies, consistently demonstrating that they work no better than placebo, while highlighting significant increases in risk of suicide and relapse with prescriptions. He challenged the ethics of recommending antidepressants given the data of their effectiveness and harm.
Our final presenter on Saturday was the powerful Tonier Cain-Muldrow, author of “Healing Neen,” and international speaker for Trauma Informed Care. Tonier is a dynamic, brutally honest woman who told her story of profound chronic trauma, polysubstance addiction, homelessness, and crime, subsequent retraumatization in the legal and “mental health” systems, and then her climb back up into recovery. She talked about who was able to help her and how. She challenged all of us by saying, “you don’t have the right to deem someone a ‘hopeless case.’” Her message was ultimately about a person’s ability to be resilient and recover when someone genuinely listens to their pain. Google her, she’ll blow you away.
[No picture because I wasn’t able to attend]
Saturday evening ISEPP held their annual awards dinner at which Art Levine, an investigative journalist, spoke on the “Ethical Epidemic: Everyday Malpractice in Behavioral Healthcare – and how to stop it”. I did not attend the dinner, so I can’t recap his presentation, but I’m sure you can find out more by checking out his book “Mental Health Inc.: How Corruption, Lax Oversight, and Failed Reforms Endanger Our Most Vulnerable Citizens.”
Sunday morning we heard from Ben Rall, DC, author of Cooperative Wellness: How to Achieve Wellness and Be Part of the Health Care Solution. His presentation, The Doctor Within – Understanding vitalism and holistic care and it’s role” discussed the body’s innate biological ability to regulate and heal itself and recover health when treated (fed, rested, and exercised) properly. He confronted several areas of iatrogenic harm, highlighted the value of healthy eating, and warned of the long term effects of stress on our physiological systems.
Dr. Charles Ruby, our Executive Director, presented his research of the articles on the correlation of psychiatric drugs and violence. He explained that while we cannot say there is a direct causal relationship, there is a clear increased risk of violent behavior when several other factors are present. The factors he mentioned are: Male Young History of a disregard for others History of violence Easy access to lethal weapons Poor social support Feeling persecuted or mistreated Difficulty controlling thoughts Drug or alcohol use He also discussed research findings that of the top 31 drugs associated with violent behavior, 26 are psychotropic medications, the two most risky being antidepressants and benzodiazepines. His final thoughts highlighted the need for more research.
After lunch we heard from Dr. James Gordon, author of The Transformation: Discovering Wholeness and Healing After Trauma. Dr. Gordon founded and is the executive director of The Center for Mind-Body Medicine. He talked about how he trains practitioners to transform trauma using self-awareness, self-care, meditation, and movement. He even lead the audience through a dance-movement exercise. He discussed the body’s systemic responses to trauma and how we should be treating chronic stress like a toxin.
The last presentation I was able to attend before needing to catch my flight home was the Warfighter Advance Panel “Army, Navy, Air Force, Marine Corps: A Journey From Warfighter to Psychiatric Patient to Warfighter”. I can’t accurately describe how powerful this experience was. Six soldiers from each branch bravely opened themselves up to us, told their stories of trauma, then of how the military psychiatric system traumatized them further (e.g. most did not experience suicidality until after they were put on psychiatric medication) and then how they reconnected to themselves through the Warfighter Advance Program. Warfighter Advance is an amazing (and deeply needed) program founded and run by Dr. Mary Vieten (far right), psychologist and soldier, in order to help soldiers who have been wounded by war and psychiatry to reconnect with themselves and to heal in an authentic way. It was a powerful and moving honor to hear their stories. If you work with military personnel with PTS, I can’t recommend strong enough that you refer them to Warfighter Advance.
Finally, the 2019 ISEPP conference closed out by screening the film “Medicating Normal” by Lynn Cunningham and Wendy Ractliffe. I was not able to see the film but I look forward to checking out a screening or viewing it online when available. (Bummed too – I just missed a screening that was here in Denver a few weeks ago).
So there it is. It took a long time for me to get this post up, but finally it’s here. If you have any questions about ISEPP, please check out our website at www.psychintegrity.org.
This is my first blog entry and therefore it will be more of an introduction of myself and of what you will find here in the Blog.
Without repeating too much of what you have come across in my “About Me” page, I am a Jungian oriented psychologist. This is not to be confused with a Jungian Analyst, who is a person who has completed the certification training at a Jungian Institute (we have one of those here in Denver) – perhaps I have future designs on completing the training and becoming an official Jungian Analyst but we’ll see – the idea of diving back into what is essentially another doctoral degree causes me some panic, erm, I mean pause.
Being a “Jungian oriented psychologist” means that I see us humans, and what we go through psychologically and emotionally in the way that Jung saw us. We are essentially these clumsy, wonderful, messy, hypocritical, creative, hurtful, bungling beings trying to figure out how to be ourselves. This also means that our suffering always, ALWAYS, has meaning. And this means that we have so much depth to us, that the resolution to our pain, the solution to our problems (if there is one) is already within us. Our growth, recovery, development, and progress all stem from the process of tapping into that stuff that is already within us.
That, in a nutshell, is where I am coming from psychologically.
I’m hoping to use this forum, the Blog, to discuss current news, discuss psychological issues, and share my musings about what it means to be human. If you permit me a bit of a soap box rant, we as a culture have significantly downplayed introspection and self awareness to our detriment. So, this is one little piece of my effort to help us all move past the cultural messaging and invite you all to look a little more inside, into areas you haven’t looked before.
I also intend to share things that I might call “educational.” There is so much misinformation in the world right now about psychology, mental health, and “mental illness.” Unfortunately, false conceptions about the human mind are rampant because they are evocative elements to include in news stories, political arguments, and the reinforcement of our perceived social standing. If I were dead, I’d be rolling over in my grave at 90% (maybe more?) of what I read in headlines or hear on the news about mental issues and human psychology. And don’t get me wrong, my own field is more often than not culpable in this. That’s a whole lot of grave rolling. So, because of all this, I will also share articles that I think are important to a correct understand of what’s going on “behind the curtain” of our minds.
Who do I think I am, telling you all what is correct?! How DARE I! Well, simply put, I’m an expert! And in true Socratic form, what this means is the more I learn, the less I know. There is an interesting barrier that comes up for us “mental health professionals.” Call it ego, or cognitive dissonance, or a ham sandwich, we “MHP’s” often get caught up in our own degrees and believe we KNOW what everyone needs or what is going on with everyone. I constantly have to talk myself down from that ledge – so that I can admit that, while I have studied theories, philosophies, research, and I have worked with hundreds of people, I can’t know what is going on with any one person because I am NOT that person. It requires a great deal of courage, apparently, to say “I don’t know.” Jung famously said to people starting out in mental health, “Learn your theories as well as you can, but put them aside when you touch the miracle of the living soul.” This brings me back to the point I made earlier. Everything you need to heal and grow is already inside you. My job is simply to do what I can to guide you back to that stuff.
A final note on contacting me. If you have any questions, comments, or corrections about anything I’ve written, please contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org. I have disabled the comments section of my blog posts because I do not want this place to be a discussion site. I am relaying information that I believe is important, and I welcome your feedback. If you wish to discuss with me further, we can do so via email. That is preferable to the “public forum” of a comments section. I have too often seen wars of verbal abuse occur in the comments sections of articles and will not allow that to happen here. I hope you understand, and all this being said, I do warmly welcome your communication with me directly about anything I post here.
Thanks for reading and even subscribing if that is something you’ve been so inclined to do. I hope not to bore you but to help you see yourself more wholly, see the world more deeply, teach you a thing or two, and to occasionally blow your mind.